I don't want to preach but I want to say that, in my opinion, letting your kids watch TV for some time would not kill them or even 'damage' them, and it will save your nerves to use them in the more important situations.
However, I definitely control what they are watching. Call me whatever you want, but I don't think that watching 'Tom and Jerry' is suitable for my kid - good thing that he even doesn't like that type of cartoons. :)
But hay, we passed the 'Gummy Bear phase', and duoSIS is still at 'Mama voli bebu phase'.
Anyway, I wanted to share something we all, and I really mean all 4 of us, enjoy to watch and listen. I don't know if you came across with the Barefoot books and songs but we think all their stuff are amazing. So beautiful and so suitable for kids. We love the animations and all different styles of music.
I will give you link for our favorite ones but explore the rest as well. I hope you will like it.
duoSIS favorite is:
duoBRO prefers the one with the train (oh what a surprise :) )
duoTATA likes this one: